In this episode of the Trends Property Insight Series, we sit down with Shenali Lewke-Bandara, a specialist in trusts, estates, and relationship property law at Denham Bramwell Lawyers, to unpack the often-overlooked legal structures that can protect your assets, relationships, and peace of mind. With warmth and clarity, Shenali guides us through the key life stages where legal advice becomes crucial, from entering a relationship to owning property, starting a family, inheriting wealth, or planning for the unexpected.

Shenali shares why New Zealanders have more trusts per capita than anywhere else, and what that actually means for property ownership, intergenerational wealth, and blended family dynamics. She explains the differences between Wills, trusts, and Contracting Out Agreements (often referred to as prenups), and highlights how poorly managed trusts, unclear Wills, or lack of enduring powers of attorney can leave families vulnerable at the worst possible time.

We explore how personal circumstances, such as repartnering, children from previous relationships, or family businesses, add complexity to estate planning, and why it’s vital to have honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversations early, before legal assumptions or life’s curveballs take over. Shenali also emphasises the importance of coordinated advice, working alongside accountants and financial planners to ensure aligned, holistic decisions.

Whether you’re entering a new relationship, protecting inherited property, or helping your parents get their affairs in order, this episode will give you the language and confidence to take control of your legal well-being. Shenali’s message is simple but powerful: you don’t need to have all the answers,  you just need to start the conversation.

There’s plenty more where that came from. The Trends Property Insight Series is a video podcast that dives into the real stories, expert advice, and smart solutions behind New Zealand’s renovation, building, and home buying journeys. Hosted by Andrew Johnson, each episode features industry leaders, design professionals, and product innovators sharing practical insights to help you make confident decisions for your home.

To explore the full series of interviews, design stories, and renovation tips, head over to our Podcast Page and watch or listen to every episode on demand.